It's been 6 years since I married my best friend. I thought about what to write here, on our Anniversary...I think that this sums it up. (these are my vows to Eric on our Wedding Day!)
I, Melissa, take you, Eric as my best friend for life...
All I know of love begins and ends with you...
With you, I have found someone that I always like to be with, no matter what we do.
With you, I have discovered how much it means to be able to share hopes and dreams, good times and bad times.
With you, I have found warmth, understanding, and a depth of caring that has touched my heart.
With you, I have found not only the love of my lifetime, but also my very best friend.
You have changed my life in so many ways. Without you, I would not be the person that I am today. You have showed me the true meaning of love. Before you, I never knew that feelings like this were real. From the moment on the beach, I knew that you were the man that I was going to marry. I realized that I didn't want to waste another minute of my life without you in it. I was, and still am, willing to go anywhere or do anything in order to stay by your side for the rest of my life. Since that day, we have both grown and changed in so many different ways. We have loved, and also lost, and I do believe that it has made our relationship stronger by the day. We now have something else to look foward to, the arrival of our son, Robert Joseph. There is no doubt in my mind that you will make an amazing father. You have so much love inside of you, that I do believe he is already the luckiest little boy in the world. I know that we are ready to accept this challenge and face it head on. Whatever life throws our way, we will be able to handle, because we have eachother. You have made me not only the happiest, but the luckiest woman on Earth. I do not know where I would be without you. We are now beginning the journey of marriage. I can not wait to spend the rest of my life with you, the man that I love, the father of our son, and also my very best friend. I know that I have everything that anyone could ever want...Someone who shares the same values, shares the same dreams..Someone who understands the parts of me that other people don't even know exist. I have found the most amazing man in the world, and I promise to love and respect you for the rest of our lives.
I promise to share everything with you, to talk about our ideas, our dreams, the little everyday things that make us laugh, and the not so little things that we can't help worrying about.
I promise to give you my love as a place you can always come to for acceptance or the simple comfort that silence brings when things left unspoken can still be understood. But most of all, I promise to love you for the rest of my life, to wake up every morning with you by my side, knowing that no matter what happens we will be able to come home to each others loving arms.
I promise to grow old with you, to watch our life unfold, and our dreams, one by one come true...
I promise to love you forever...this is my solemn vow.
Happy Anniversary, Eric. I love you.